One thing that most of us notice is meanness, though almost always in other people. For example, of all the mean things that a person can do to me, there is an act, though likely unintended, that really, really gets my goat. Every time I experience it, I am propelled from nice guy to wannabe strangler.
Has it ever happened to you? Step into a tub-shower and bend to turn on the water only to be inst…
